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I don't know what you mean here — I've not noticed any such pattern.
Such as?
But if everyone who reads it hates it, then what good was writing it? Would my time have not been better spent doing something else?
My feeling is that those are all the sort of analytical, logical questions that get in the way of fiction writing, which is why I recommend doing it early or late. Or at least, when you're feeling more free and creative. But I don't know man, do whatever works for you.
Again, why would time of day affect "the sort of analytical, logical questions that get in the way" or how "free and creative" I'm feeling?
You dont notice your mood and thinking change over the course of the day? Youre able to switch instantly from something like writing code to writing fiction? If you can, great, its just not easy for most people.
Not really. At least, not with regards to this sort of worrying — what other people tend to call "catastrophizing" and I call 'the identification of how things can fail as a necessary precondition to take the necessary measures to prevent such bad outcomes' and 'not going blithely through life with a naïve optimism that everything will just somehow work out for the best for me with no real effort on my part.'
No, because, despite ~30 years of effort, I still can't really code.
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