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I don't have a vote in any American election, but I think if I did, and my choices were "the hard-lefties are going to whine anyway, no matter the result", then I would vote for Trump (or whomever). May as well be hung for a sheep as a lamb. Even if it's a doomed effort - as I think the upcoming vote in our referendums will be, to change "sexist" language in the Constitution; I'm voting "no" even though I expect "yes" to win - because then at least I can say to myself that I didn't passively go along. If I don't, then I don't get to complain about "they do stuff I don't like" because I didn't even put up a token resistance.
But if you want to vote for "whatever will cut down conflict in my personal and work life", I'm not going to call you names or tell you to do otherwise. If you want a quiet domestic life, instead of listening to your spouse bitching about the horrible guy, then that's absolutely your choice and your right to make that choice. I take your point about no matter who the Republican candidate is, they'll be unacceptable; see this opinion piece about Nikki Haley. If you're a Democrat, then better her than Trump, who is Literally Hitler, right? Wrong!
I'm starting to think the only thing that would satisfy some is if the Republicans decided to never again run a candidate in any election and announced "You're right, we're wrong, only a Democratic president/governor/dog catcher is the proper and suitable choice, we'll all just go away now and convert to the other party".
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