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In my experience (knowing a lot of lefty young women who have later become mothers), motherhood isn't as much correlated with leaving the left entirely as it is with downscaling politics and moving to more "grounded" issues (ie. schools and family services instead of the Big Global Causes). However, for a lot of them, busy with taking care of kids, the only respite in a day might be short Instagram breaks to browse the feeds of their friends (many/most of them predictably people they've hung around with before becoming parents, ie. other lefties), and once they spot that kids are killed in Palestine or there's a feminist meme going around in Stories, they might just as well just reshare it.
I mean, it would be a fairly odd though pattern to go "Hum, I'm a mother now, guess it's time to sympathize with Israel instead of Palestine", especially considering how much of pro-Palestine content revolves around harrowing news like this. (Of course, motherhood might lead to a new search for a religion, and in Western context that often means a church that supports Israel, which might then cause that flip.)
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