The Wednesday Wellness threads are meant to encourage users to ask for and provide advice and motivation to improve their lives. It isn't intended as a 'containment thread' and any content which could go here could instead be posted in its own thread. You could post:
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Requests for advice and / or encouragement. On basically any topic and for any scale of problem.
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Updates to let us know how you are doing. This provides valuable feedback on past advice / encouragement and will hopefully make people feel a little more motivated to follow through. If you want to be reminded to post your update, see the post titled 'update reminders', below.
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Advice. This can be in response to a request for advice or just something that you think could be generally useful for many people here.
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Encouragement. Probably best directed at specific users, but if you feel like just encouraging people in general I don't think anyone is going to object. I don't think I really need to say this, but just to be clear; encouragement should have a generally positive tone and not shame people (if people feel that shame might be an effective tool for motivating people, please discuss this so we can form a group consensus on how to use it rather than just trying it).
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I agree with the general sentiment you should marry this woman and never cheat on her. But have you tried masturbation? Maybe you have and it doesn't do anything, but the obsession with casual sex you're describing sounds possibly neurochemical in some way. I know when I'm horny, sex feels like the most important thing in the world and I should text all my exes and look up with weirdest porn, then within literally seconds after cumming all of that feels irrelevant and that I should go read a book or watch some Netflix. Maybe masturbation would still feel too guilty and sinful for you if you're conservative, but at the very least, I'd strongly encourage you to get some post-nut clarity before ever actually downloading a dating app or going to a club to hook up with someone.
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