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Culture War Roundup for the week of January 8, 2024

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One side is merely asking to be able to exist

I'm unsure if you're endorsing the trans-inclusive paradigm, or simply describing it. If the former - I generally try to respect trans people's preferred pronouns within reason, but the idea that a failure to do so (even a malicious, knowing, intentional failure to do so) is denying the right of trans people to exist is preposterous.

I'm describing (the entire comment is attempting to more accurately explain/steel man the thinking that goes behind the "not a big deal" argument)

But I have heard this idea expressed by an actual friend in real life (in the form of the phrase "trans genocide") - and similarly find it a bit silly. So I'll try and steel man it:

You already did the first part of the steel man, as you changed "deny the existence" to "deny the right to existence", which is what is actually meant.

Under the framework of trans ideology, we all have a gender identity. This doesn't manifest in any physical manner (you may be a woman but have a penis and XY chromosomes) - but it is real in the sense that, if you try and ignore/suppress it, you will experience "gender dysphoria" (i.e. pain, like if I try and ignore my left arm and it smashes into a door frame)

But beyond this, your gender identity forms a key component of who you are as a human being, to express and have it affirmed is a necessary condition to be your "true self". When a trans person gets to live as their real gender (opposite to their sex), they experience "gender euphoria".

Before that moment, they were merely living a pathetic shadow of a life, forced to play act as something they were not - now they are their authentic self, it borders on the spiritual. If that sounds crazy to you, that's only because you never had the misfortune of having a sex-gender mismatch - it's hard to appreciate water when you've never been thirsty.

So when you refuse to affirm their gender you deny them of having a truly fulfilling existence - they can never actually be themself*

*Whilst the first paragraph is completely standard progressive theory, I am putting words into their mouths a bit with the later parts (I don't think I've ever read anyone say what I said there, but I do get the sense that a lot of people believe this on some level, based on personal interactions, hearing activists, and terms like "gender euphoria")