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I've heard this joke over and over, some sort of variation on a theme. "Two wives? I can barely handle one? Hyuck hyuck hyuck".
I'm not polyamorous, but frankly, it's not difficult to manage more than one relationship at a time if you don't have kids. Plenty of people don't want to hang out with each other 24/7, and many young women don't want undivided attention. In modern dating, it codes as clingy. During college, having ~3 partners available at a time was absolutely the best way to avoid being called an over-emotional freak.
Yes, there was also the benefit of being desired by multiple people at the same time. I don't see how that can be considered unexciting or not worth some minor scheduling effort. Variety in personality, body types, and tastes is intrinsically pleasurable.
Maybe I just was not built for it. I've had several periods where I was casually dating two or three women at the same time and after a week or so (I know, I know, it's a stupid complaint) I was genuinely physically exhausted from the amount of sex. I couldn't wait to just play video games by myself.
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