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Do not weakman in order to show how bad a group is. Especially when that group is "this forum," please.
I didn’t say anyone is "bad." I was describing their possible motivations, not their moral value as people. For example, Trump was right to say that there were "very fine people on both sides" at Charlottesville; in fact, the vast majority were probably perfectly fine people. Even James Fields's actions were perfectly understandable, even if they were morally wrong. I have known of ]gang members who have done terrible things, but who are not terrible people](https://oaklandvoices.us/tag/lam-vo/page/2/). Whether a person's actions are wrong does not mean that the person is a "bad person," and indeed with some exceptions, claims about the moral worth of individuals are meaningless, at best.
I didn't say that you said anyone is bad. I modded you for violating the rule against weakmanning. Since you were apparently confused by the shorthand, here is the rule in its entirety:
You broke that rule, and in particular the group under discussion was this forum, which I am particularly protective of, as we have discussed.
Don't.
Yes, you did: "Do not weakman in order to show how bad a group is."
If ascribing motives to people who post here is considered against the rules, fine. But I suggest clarifying that in the rules, because the rule you quote explicitly endorses ascribing motives to the common behavior of groups: "let's talk about the underlying reason why congressmen do this sort of thing regularly".
Which word in that sentence you quoted is the word "say" or "said?" Can you bold it for me?
"in order to show." What did you mean, if not that I was saying that the group is bad?
That you had violated the rule against weakmanning.
Right. By means of ostensibly saying that the group was bad, right? Jesus, what is the point of claiming you didn't say what you said? It doesn’t undermine your broader point, which is that you don’t want people opining about the motives of members. That rule holds whether one thinks that the motive says something about the moral status of the person, the moral status of the motive, neither, or both.
You didn't--as you were for some reason anxious to point out--say that anyone was bad. Remember? This is you:
That's true! And it is true in very much the same spirit in which I didn't say that you said it.
No. What I don't want you doing is weakmanning any groups, but especially not this one.
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It's only weakmanning to show how bad a group is if you assume that Gdanning thinks there is something bad about disliking Obama for his skin color.
I haven't assumed anything. But if you're suggesting that Gdanning should have been modded under "speak plainly" instead, your suggestion has been noted.
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