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Culture War Roundup for the week of December 11, 2023

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Obviously, it's because there is a sexual element to a woman squatting but not the same for a man squatting. That's not Twitch's fault, or my fault, but the unfair reality that we live in a world where people find one situation titillating but not the other. And sure, it's unfair, but oh well.

Obviously, it's because there is a sexual element to a woman squatting but not the same for a man squatting.

For straight men or lesbian women or bi/pan people.

For straight women or gay men or bi/pan people, there indeed can be a sexual element to a man squatting, depending on the man. Nice thighs! Not too bulgy, not too weedy!

Many otherwise mundane activities can elicit a sexual response in some people. It doesn't follow that because of a minority of paraphiles, that those activities are sexual.

But this is not some unalterable fact of the universe. It is a fact about our minds, our social context. It is a thing we can and should change.

You are entitled to your opinion, but I think it's unreasonable to put the burden of realising that change on Twitch.

I'm... uh... not sure the best way to demonstrate this, especially if you're a straight man or a gay woman, but there's absolutely a lot to be looking at, from either front or back, when there's a guy in tighter clothing squatting.

I am a gay man, so it's not that I don't get it (though I'm more of a leg extension man myself). But then, some people are turned on by women shopping for wonder bread. That doesn't make it sexual.