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Culture War Roundup for the week of December 4, 2023

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I agree but probably from a different angle. This article (linked in the OP), is a must read. Something is seriously wrong in the water in SK, there just seems to be a much higher base rate of the (almost universal and new) gender animosity in SK. Hell they have a womens version of MGTOW that seems to be just as radical as the male version and they elected an "incel" president (says so on the article).

My gut feeling is that "to fix the birthrate, you must first fix the fuck rate". I would like to see some data on male-female attractiveness differentials and gender animosity and birth rates, broken down by country. I think the conversatives despite being the only ones to talk about the fuck-rate aspect of it all are still putting the cart before the horse. Something is severly broken in modern (m|d)ating, and I think it gets given less credence in these conversations than it should be. Yes, I'm bringing practically 0- evidence, but it's a very latent gut feeling I have.

I think Korea is just a country that naturally takes things to extremes. Like when Buddhism was introduced they got super into Buddhism, and then more recently they took to Christianity hardcore. Online gaming, Go/baduk, and boy/girl pop groups. SK is super capitalist while NK is super communist. And not just big things but silly little fads like eating streams or Taiwanese cakes (the failed business of the family in Parasite) seem to take the whole country by storm one day, then disappear the next. So it makes sense to me that they would also push feminism and MRA to their most toxic extremes.