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I disagree with this framework, or at least find it overly broad. I weight sincerity in ideals strongly, not exclusively when it comes to assigning respect.
Consider it akin to the perspective of the relationship between Patton and Rommel. From what I've heard, both respected each other a great deal, perhaps more than they did the average general on their side. This respect did not stop them from ordering their forces to shoot at each other in the field, or make them betray their own side.
While I'm lucky enough not to find myself holding a gun and facing off against a Jihadist, I would have no qualms in killing them if it came to that, whereas I have little desire to enter a war with the average Muslim unless they raise arms against me and my ideals by force.
You can respect an ideological opponent and still hate their guts till death resolves the issue once and for all.
I think there's a difference between being enemies as a result of material circumstance, which can allow for mutual respect, versus fundamental ideological differences, which I don't think do, or at least severely cap the amount.
Like, if I found myself in a family/tribe/guild/nation, and someone else is in another, and we both want the same land/resource, or are fighting for sovereignty or global hegemony, then we could have approximately the same values but still be at odds against one another, because we each want what's best for our own group to the exclusion of what's best for the other group. Similarly, I can respect an opponent who has different factual beliefs (provided they're not absurd and obviously false such that no respectable person would be wrong in the way they are). Maybe we both want what's best for everyone, but disagree on what course of action is best to do that. Or even with slight ideological differences there can be mutual respect. Like, if there's an opportunity to tradeoff freedom points versus security points at a 1:1 ratio, and I value freedom at 6 utils each and security at 4 utils each, while person B values freedom at 4 utils each and security at 6 utils each, then we're going to end up on opposite sides of the issue of the tradeoff despite both valuing freedom and security. Ideally, neither of the latter two scenarios would lead to war, but maybe they would.
But if the other person's ideology is just straight up evil then no, I can't respect that. Or rather, the sum of my respect would be all of the other traits about them that might be respectable, minus the massive loss from them being an evil person. I don't think it's respectable to be evil, even if you're loyal and devoted to your evil ideals. To the extent that Rommel wanted what's best for the German people and genuinely thought that he was helping them, I can respect that. To the extent that Rommel turned a blind eye to genocide in as a sacrifice towards that end, I lose a decent amount of respect. To the extent that Rommel might have genuinely believed in genocide as a means itself, if any (it's not entirely clear) I would lose a ton of respect for him. I would have much much more respect for a counterfactual Rommel who had pulled a coup on Hitler, stopped the genocide, and then tried to conquer the world, because it would have shown more moral fortitude than someone who's blindly loyal.
In the end this is again a semantic discussion. Respect comes form the latin respectere/respicere, which is generally taken to mean "looking back;regard;consider". I'd interpret this - and to some degree the modern usage - that to respect someone means that you always keep them in consideration. This can apply to an enemy, which is so dangerous that you simply can't ignore them. We see this in the fact that talking about threats also has historically included respect as a term - "keeping my respectful distance" for example. In this usage, respect is a positive term, but it's strictly about "greatness" in a sense, not goodness. So even the most despicable mortal ideological enemy can be respectable, as long as he is sufficiently great.
Of course, most positive terms go through an evolution where other generically good things get attached to them, and respect is no exception (similar to how many negative terms end up as generic insults). This is reflected in the wikipedia entry of the term, which takes it to mean, among other things: "a sense of admiration for good or valuable qualities". To be honest, while ultimately words always change meaning and people can use words in the way they choose, I greatly prefer the old meaning. We already have plenty of good generic words for liking people and appreciating their positive qualities. But in the old meaning, respecting a true enemy is a fairly unique concept, and word. It's a pity to let go of that.
I think this still demands a distinction in different contexts, especially between respect in ones physical capabilities, and one in their mental capabilities. I respect a lion as a powerful beast and I would avoid trying to fight one in unarmed physical combat. I do not respect a lion's intellectual abilities, and would happily trounce one in a game of chess if I could play in safety from its aforementioned physical prowess. Further, I do not respect the physical abilities of lions as a whole in comparison to humans as a whole, because we have guns and missiles and they do not. They simply do not pose an existential threat to humans as a species, while we do pose such a threat if we cared to wipe them out (and maybe even if we half-heartedly try not to).
Bringing this back then, I respect the physical threat of a jihadi in a similar way to a lion, they're extremely lethal if you face one underprepared, and I would personally try to avoid them, but I do not respect them as an existential threat to my people, we have nukes and they do not. But this is a separate consideration from the original issue of respecting their conviction. On the moral front, I do respect the specific integrity of standing up for one's beliefs, but overall do not respect their general moral character, because their beliefs are evil and selfish. Even from a classical sense, they don't exhibit honorable behaviors worth respecting. If they stood and fought against overwhelming odds and died for their beliefs, I could respect that more. But guerilla warfare, hiding behind civilians, and terrorism are incredibly dishonorable and unrespectable. If their beliefs tell them to do that, then they're just standing up for dishonorable beliefs. If you're going to respect that you might as well treat the hypocritical Christian as someone who believes in being a hypocrite and respect them for being so good at it.
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