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Culture War Roundup for the week of September 19, 2022

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In turn women are also tools in the game, to show to other men how much better you are for getting hotter/classier women than they can.

I used to believe what you say, but I don't think it makes sense. Simply physically getting into the panties of a hot woman isn't worth grinding yourself to the bone. It must be seen and known. By other people. Simply being powerful, being respected, feared, obeyed, exerting control over the course of things feels good as an end to itself not just as a means to get your dick wet physically in private, behind closed doors.

Success with women is an ego confirmation/validation that you are important, high status etc. That's not to say that powerful men don't enjoy the sex part, but it's not the only goal.

Human motivation is multi-faceted. We enjoy eating food, enjoy relaxing, enjoy accumulating resources and status, enjoy sex, enjoy being accepted as part of communities and friend groups, enjoy having good shelter and warm clothes etc. There's no need to pick one and claim that they others are just proxies for that one.

I absolutely drag my wife to work events for precisely this reason. Of course earning respect without them knowing what she looks like is a constant process, but there's a small but marked difference between people who have met her and those who haven't.