The Wednesday Wellness threads are meant to encourage users to ask for and provide advice and motivation to improve their lives. It isn't intended as a 'containment thread' and any content which could go here could instead be posted in its own thread. You could post:
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Requests for advice and / or encouragement. On basically any topic and for any scale of problem.
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Updates to let us know how you are doing. This provides valuable feedback on past advice / encouragement and will hopefully make people feel a little more motivated to follow through. If you want to be reminded to post your update, see the post titled 'update reminders', below.
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Advice. This can be in response to a request for advice or just something that you think could be generally useful for many people here.
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Encouragement. Probably best directed at specific users, but if you feel like just encouraging people in general I don't think anyone is going to object. I don't think I really need to say this, but just to be clear; encouragement should have a generally positive tone and not shame people (if people feel that shame might be an effective tool for motivating people, please discuss this so we can form a group consensus on how to use it rather than just trying it).
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I've graduated to middle management and this week has been extremely stressful so far. People love to shit on middle managers, but good damn, do you feel helpless compared to a team lead or an engg mgr.
Don't get me wrong, having so many of your utterances become speech acts is cool. But when you are twice removed from your ICs, isolated from them by other managers that may or may not be well-versed in either management or subject matter, giving any firm commitments is scary. Scary, but necessary.
Don't be the Clueless, don't be the Clueless...
Hah, I see the Gervais Principle has stuck in your head too. One of those things that's hard to unsee.
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