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Something which everyone possesses by default has almost no value. If everyone's super, nobody is.
I find most people to be profoundly boring and lacking in substance, soul and imagination.
Being scared to alter your body in any way immediately marks you to me as being boring, lacking in substance, soul and imagination. You are store-brand Cornflakes in a plain white box.
OK, but we're talking about beauty, not value. Snowflakes are virtually worthless, and incredibly common, but are very pretty.
Again, this has little to do with physical beauty.
Using this word is so disingenuous that I consider it lying. Who said anything about fear? Disliking something is not being afraid of it.
To be beautiful is to have value. Perhaps not monetary value, but conceptual value. Snow also probably stops being as remarkably pretty if you live in, say, Canada, in the same way as stock human bodies become boring when you're surrounded by them constantly, too. We see so many generically attractive people in media that I for one have become completely inured to it. Just that fails to interest me anymore.
It is everything to do with physical beauty. Beauty is, above all, rare. Cover your bedroom walls in Mona Lisas and you'll soon stop finding it magical. Unique things are far more beautiful than generic things.
Just personal experience that this is what it usually comes down to. Fear of the process, or fear of "growing out" of whatever you decide to get. Nebulous fears about how it'll look when you're old (nobody actually gives a flying shite how you look when you're old). Things like that are what I hear most commonly against them.
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