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Low effort.
Great, never said it did.
Are you not? Genuinely? Is your honest position that literally nobody will make a mistake or misunderstand the question? If it is, I'm impressed by your faith in humanity. If not, don't pretend this is some kind of abstract hypothetical my argument relies on. It's not. It's just reality.
Great, never said either did.
I think we are at an impasse.
If you quit trying to pick apart my words and actually engage with the meaning behind them we won't be. You've spent like 6 comments telling me my implication was misleading without sparing a single one to address what I've repeatedly told you the actual implication was. Feels like you are just looking for technicalities rather than trying to have a discussion. If you'd prefer to keep analyzing my wording though, when the meaning behind it has been made quite clear, I'm happy to leave it at an impasse.
Quite the contrary. I’m not trying to pick apart your words. I’m assuming you are using words in their ordinary English usage to convey meaning. But you seem to keep shifting what your words mean and therefore what you are saying isn’t obvious and it is hard to nail down exactly what you mean.
I’m arguing your premises are wrong and then you keep responding that I’m not understanding your implication but I’m looking at the words to understand your implication.
Alright, impasse it is then, lol.
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