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Culture War Roundup for the week of August 7, 2023

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Hanson is either trolling or socially clueless. "Gentle silent rape" implies that central examples of rape are gentle and silent.

How does it do that? Hanson quite explicitly narrowed his questions about rape in general to "gentle silent rape":

I presented evidence that most men would rather be raped than cuckolded...[referencing a prior post which is linked] It occurred to me recently that we can more clearly compare cuckoldry to gentle silent rape. Imagine a woman was drugged into unconsciousness and then gently raped, so that she suffered no noticeable physical harm nor any memory of the event, and the rapist tried to keep the event secret. Now drugging someone against their will is a crime, but the added rape would add greatly to the crime in the eyes of today’s law, and the added punishment for this addition would be far more than for cuckoldry.

A few hours later he called out again that gentle silent rape differs quite a lot from standard rape:

Added 11p 1Dec: 95 comments so far, almost all of which ignore my “gentle silent” modifier, and just argue about standard rape.

So no, Hanson is not implying anything of the sort.

How does it do that? Hanson quite explicitly narrowed his questions about rape in general to "gentle silent rape":

The title doesn't contain any disclaimers and it's far more prominent than the place in the article where he does have the disclaimer, simply because titles work that way. He's doing it that way because he knows very well that people will read the title as being offensive, and he's trolling people by tricking them into making reasonable in context interpretations and then saying "see, that's not what it literally says, if you read the fine print, so you're literally wrong".

There's a reason why we have the concept of clickbait titles.