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I mean this in the nicest possible way, but you might try getting over yourself. Many people when they first get into rationality/truth seeking or whatever start to see themselves as better than ‘normies’, as some sort of elect because they are smarter or see more clearly or whatever.
That sort of ideology will only bring you pain. No matter how much truth you accumulate you’re still just a person. If other people seem happier than you, maybe they know something you don’t.
I don't see myself as better, I see myself as different. I have slightly improved analytical skills in limited situations, but other people have far better social skills.
I think your point still applies though because if I always view myself as an outsider it will make it harder to connect with people.
Yep! That’s what I was getting at, perhaps I was a little harsh.
Also social skills are way overrated. 90% of skill socially is just staying relaxed.
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