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He's been posting about how he's too disgusting to be loved by anyone for the last 6 months or so.
The unfortunate irony of this is it's probably his conviction that this is true, more than anything else, that makes it so.
There is no reason to believe that it is so at all. These kinds of thoughts have a way of persisting against all logic and evidence. I often have thoughts about how disgusting I am, but when I go out I get plenty of attention from men. So it's possible that Skookum could be attractive.
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Yeah I only realized that it was that same guy after reading the other replies lol.
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