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I can only go yikes if my essay gave you the impression I was fond of the Confederate flag in any way. At most, I can say that I'm not reflexively against anyone flying it, and I think I can at least get along with them.
Now AR-15s..
My current plan is to sell her on a vacation to the States after we have some more money in hand, so she can see for herself whether it's the dystopian hell hole she think it is.
I'll give that a whirl as far as time and budget allows! Thanks
If you go to Denver you might also consider dipping into Utah, it’s a short drive to canyon lands which is probably the most beautiful part of the American southwest (just don’t go in the summer). Zion, Bryce Canyon and capital reef are also stunning. Lots of people fly to Denver tent a car visit the Rockies, drive through Utah and/or the Grand Canyon before returning from Las Vegas.
I'll try and remember this, thought it might be a year or two till I can make it a reality!
Hmm.. I think my friend has a wedding coming up in the States sooner or later, that would be a fine excuse.
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