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I'm not quite sure what the child abandonment process in India is like, but even with the availability of orphanages and no questions asked surrenders, I still advocate for the right of the parents to perform infanticide. It's their choice which one they avail, and as I've said before, I don't consider that any of my business. If they want to hand the child over, good for them, but they're still inflicting negative externalities on the rest of us in the process since the government has to raise the kids (or adopt them out, which is not a given).
By all means, I'm not going around killing kids, or suggesting anyone do so to their, but if they did, I'd just cock an eyebrow and continue about my day.
The original question was:
Your response invoked the rights of the parents to not be slaves to their children, and it seems that now we're on the same page that actually those rights aren't really being violated. So which of the following is your actual position?
These children's lives are not worth living.
These children's lives are worth living, but not enough worth living to justify the additional negative externalities.
The latter as far as I can tell.
My guess is that that is less due to actual utilitarianism, and more due to reasoning like "they have no right to my money." Not that the latter is wrong or bad but I think it's very rare and unnatural for people to reason these things out from first principles. It simply feels wrong to be forced to donate lots of money to lowlifes' children rather than your own.
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