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As a sort of trans skeptic, I find this discussion to be missing the point. I have an internal notion of "men" and "women" which, however elegant, "just" or in correspondence with simple criteria like chromosomes it is or isn't, has served my model of reality quite well so far. Why does some political group arrogate to itself the right to replace this notion, or really any part of my map, with one that they favour? Maybe the median person is used to their concept space being dictated from above by teachers, journalists and politicians, but I thought of our social contract as entailing that adults at least in principle have the right to be persuaded rather than threatened into updating their thinking. No other element of the progressive policy package seems to go quite as far towards demanding submission in thought rather than merely in deed.
This ended when Gorsuch penned the Bostock ruling. Whatever you thought the social contract entailed, the law is that trans women are women and that treating them otherwise is discrimination, punishable in civil suits with the full weight of the government. You may be permitted to think what you like in your own head, but behaving accordingly will not be tolerated.
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The contention is that the 'internal model' is possibly more pro-trans than anything else, since it says that a trans person who passed in your estimation would be considered by you to be their goal sex.
I don't actually think so. If you see a fake barn, and think that you saw a barn, that just makes it a very convincing fake. You're using the visual traits to infer the other traits. It correlates very highly (or there would be no point to doing so) but not perfectly.
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Right, sure, but this isn't the case for any of the contentious cases I have encountered yet. Conversely, I don't think that if you told me any person I know well underwent karyotyping and were actually found to be the opposite chromosomal sex from what I took them to be, I would feel any urge to update my mental category for them accordingly (this is intended as a statement about how well my mental categories seem to predict on the set of people I know well); this would even continue being the case if they then announced that they will "socially transition" to their chromosomal sex (this is intended as a statement on how little the things people change when they "socially transition" actually overlap with the qualities that I care for when I use my m/f category as a predictor).
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Yeah, all the biological stuff is besides the point. Gametes, chromosomes, whatever… I can tell a man from a woman without sampling his DNA.
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