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One thing that's pretty funny about it if you're able to remove yourself from the darkness a bit is that the people who still seem to be holding some remaining fear are almost exclusively the smartest and the dumbest. Where I live, it's basically only underclass people and academic types that are still wearing masks. The people in the smart group seem to be operating on the basis that nothing changed and that Covid is still very concerning because of long Covid and therefore they will continue to mask up; nothing much changed between the post-vax summer when masks were still required and the present time, so they're able to think through it be confused at why people dropped masking. The dumbest seem to just kind of keep doing the same thing without any meaningful thought behind it - I see these people walking around with masks on their chins still, in 2023.
The middle, the ordinary grill-pilled Americans, seem perfectly content with the idea that two years of deranged behavior successfully stopped the new plague, so everything can be normal again.
It's the bell curve meme!
Ah, here we are.
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There's a family in my neighborhood -- mom, dad, three kids -- that takes walks together every day. Still fully masked even outdoors.
I think mom relaxed the rule for one of her kids. She was out with just the one kid when we ended up crossing paths on a narrow trail and as soon as she saw me she was calling to her kid to mask up. It also wasn't a normal surgical mask, it was some kind of child ventilator with a rubber seal.
This is a wealthy area of the Pacific Northwest, so they're probably on the smart end.
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In my corner of the world I see a lot more Women than men wearing masks. And my suspicion is that they do it just to forego Make up for half of their face, instead of for any real concern over Covid.
I have a similar experience, except that I've heard them say that they use it to not feel ugly. The eyes tend to be the most attractive part of someone's face and it's relatively easy to make them look better using make-up. It's harder with a mouth, chin, jawline, cheeks etc.
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