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Culture War Roundup for the week of May 1, 2023

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what? like you go to random strangers and choke them to see how someone in an uncontrolled situation would react?

No, you spar, where you're trying to attack another person who is resisting you and trying to attack you. This is a very far cry from "having other people play along," and you regularly see people pass out from using this move in sparring, making it extremely unlikely that anyone would be familiar with it and not understand what it does.

I've said several times in this thread I don't have a stance on whether his response was right or wrong, at least until more info comes out, because if someone attacks you in real life sometimes lethal force is warranted. What I question is that he wasn't aware that this move had lethal implications, it's genuinely really clear to anyone who's used it. The "how would people react in an uncontrolled situation vs a controlled situation?" isn't the question here, it's "how would someone's bloodflow react to this move in an uncontrolled vs controlled situation?", to which the answer is "the same".

A spar is still a simulation of a fight. Maybe a pretty good simulation of a fight, but a simulation nonetheless. See also 2-Gun Action Challenge Match-style shooting competitions; they're probably as close as you can get to replicating the stress of real-life combat, but still falling short of the real-ass thing.

But the guys in the 2-Gun Action Challenges understand that guns are lethal even without actually being shot, and someone who has trained or sparred in bjj would understand the implications of a rear naked choke hold.