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SRS doesn't "usually prevent achieving orgasm". It definitely sometimes causes that, but in >75% of cases i'm pretty sure it doesn't (and it's probably higher). example reddit posts, iirc studies from surgery clinics found >75% could orgasm. I don't think it causes "severe sexual disfunction" in most cases either.
Yeah, but in an entirely different way from sexual abuse. From a purely outcome-based perspective, the way it prevents that is much closer to 'cancer surgery gone wrong' than 'sexual abuse'.
Why does that make it bad in the same way? None of the things that are supposed to make sexual abuse 'VERY BAD' - e.g. "there are a bunch of opportunists who will take advantage of children if they're given the opportunity" - apply to it.
Why call it sexual abuse, i guess? SRS doesn't have that much in common with the features that makes sexual abuse specifically bad. Accidentally injuring a penis during sex is also 'harm of a sexual nature', but it's not sexual abuse. Same for getting STDs.
There are here too. Maybe it would be more appropriate to refer to the entire grooming scenario as sexual abuse rather than just the surgery itself in isolation. That is, you have some sort of "therapist" who thinks that being trans is wonderful and good and better than being cis, which is a bias and agenda motivating their reasoning. Even if not strictly sexual in desire, they have ulterior motives of pushing the trans agenda. They then convince kids with mental illnesses or other social problems that the cause of their problem is being in the wrong body, push them down the trans chain, which ends in surgery. I would argue that this entire process is sexual abuse more than the surgery alone at the end of the line. And this is opportunists taking advantage of children given the opportunity, even if their motive is money and/or personal fulfillment and pride.
None of this is accidental. Nobody is accidentally chopping off genitals. I agree that we can't take a purely consequentialist perspective completely devoid of intent, but the intent is to cause harm "for the greater good" rather than the harm being accidental. Purposely injuring a penis during sex is sexual abuse. I would argue that deliberately giving someone an STD, not just negligent sex while infected but deliberately acting with the intention to maximize the chance of giving it to them, is also a form of sexual abuse. Even if it doesn't meet some strict set of criteria that you might use to define the term, it's something comparably bad such that mislabeling it sexual abuse isn't carrying any false connotations.
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