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I don't think there would be a significant difference if hormonal contraceptives were outlawed and made unavailable (for men as well as women, let's be fair here). More births, mostly, as we're not going to stop people from fucking. I would hope more marriages, and at younger ages, because I don't think the stigma of children out of wedlock has completely disintegrated, at least not outside of blacks, where that ship has already sailed. Perhaps changes in attitude around casual sex, and a retreat from many of the rationales of the last half-century.
Limiting formal education would have the greater impact, to my mind, although one much harder to explain or pin down. I'm not sure what the second order effects would be. It wouldn't make women any dumber, but it might make them value something besides the masculine imitation of career success that we currently see.
Of course, the true reaction would be the insane and constant propaganda from our media systems, perpetual doomerism and calls to action and whipping people into a frenzy of outrage. But I don't think that's what you were getting at.
My view is less that we should do those things, but that those are the only true solutions. It's a Gordian knot that cannot be untangled, it can only be cut, or left alone. If you want to raise birthrates, you need to be willing to raise the sword and cut the knot.
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