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I have already told you that I do not regard the TRC as a cause of the specific problems under discussion, but as a failed attempt to solve/prevent them. I don't know how much clearer I can be about that, and I regard your continued insistence on putting words into my mouth as extremely objectionable. All you had to do was like, just, read the words I wrote, instead of some other words you made up in your head for me.
It is especially irritating since, elsewhere, you do seem to actually understand at some level what is being discussed:
I agree. Everything else you've written appears to me at this point to just be deliberate obfuscation and performative doubt, and weirdly persistent attempts to insist that I am saying things I have explicitly told you I am not saying, at the level of "so you're saying." I have no patience for that nonsense, so I will excuse myself from the conversation here.
Then perhaps you need to write more clearly. If that is your position, why, when I apologized, saying "Oh, I thought you meant to imply that because you wrote in response to a post about current problems in SA," did you not simply say, "no, I didn't mean to imply that" instead of "I have no idea what you can possibly mean by this. Are you of the view that the current problems in South Africa are not reflective of any past failures?" Do you see how one might infer therefrom that you are in fact making a claim that the current problems in South Africa are reflective of the failure of the TRC?
And, please don't complain about people putting words in your mouth after you claimed that I said that "the current problems in South Africa are not reflective of any past failures."
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