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We should allow parents to kill their severely disabled children - e.g. more than light mental retardation, the bad cases of autism, very severe health issues. Not have them euthanised, have to do it themselves.
It greatly saddens me to see parents caring about practical vegetables with devotion for decades, forgoing having healthy children. It's sad and infuriating see people caring for such beg for charity on social media. Heartbreaking dysfunction of instincts, enabled by bad cultural attitudes.
Children are precious because they represent future human potential, continuation of our families. Our emotions make us care about them for that reason. Our emotions are functional, yet most people don't care to think about that for even a smidgeon of a time. Every major emotion exists for some reason, they're something like control variables.
A mentally retarded cripple who's never not going to slobber represents nothing but a resource sink. A violent, non-verbal autistic who is a physical danger to his carers, to the point that in 'enlightened' countries like the US they inject such with hormone blockers iirc or growth retardants.. .. what is the purpose of such a life ?
Call me a monster, call me a high decoupler, I don't really care. Not like any of this matters, as we're probably all going to be biodiesel within a couple of generations.
Or having healthy children who are severely neglected because all the care and attention goes to the vegetable sibling.
Seeing people ask for donations for someone who isn't even there is almost as psychologically damaging to me as watching those dating tiktok video compilations.
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