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You forgot 3: Cultural differences. For example, the highest rated TV shows differ substantially by race. It is likely that often, single people of different races are less likely to have things in common.
Re: #1, intersection between people of different groups, note that intermarriage rates differ substantially by metro area, ranging among newlywed whites in 2011-2015 from 34% in Honolulu and 28% in Miami to 4% in Portland, ME. And note that the data on US-born Asian American women is consistent with theory #1, given that 67% of 18-24 year old Asian Americans are enrolled in college, where they are going to be meeting a lot of non-Asian peers. And see PS below.
Re: #2, I would caution against drawing inferences from your own experience; you describe yourself as a reactionary, so you are an outlier in at least some respects, and your upbringing probably had something to do with that, so your mother might not be representative. Also, note that the poll on attitudes re intermarriage merely asks "do you approve or disapprove of marriage between Black people and White people," and you yourself have not said that you disapprove of that in principle, but only that your personal preference is to marry within your race.
PS: I think that data re Asian American women might be a bit off. This study says that 53% of second-generation Asian American women 1994-2004 married whites, but among third-generation Asian American women, it was 36.5%, but that more recently (2005-2015) the numbers are lower: 36% for 2nd gen and 29% for 3rd gen. (For Asian American men 2005-2015, the numbers are 21.6 and 22.4).
Finally, it is possible that B/W intermarriage rates are relatively low because African Americans are reluctant to marry whites, rather than vice-versa.
To me that mostly looks like "Whites, Asians and Hispanics prefer the same shows with a slightly different ordering, Blacks have their own taste".
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