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Culture War Roundup for the week of December 5, 2022

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I also can't imagine any of these offended women would have any sort of problem with a chart showing that taller men make more on average than shorter men.

Ask yourself “why would anyone go to wizardchan with a survey showing women prefer tall men” if not to stir the pot. She’s a troll and has been for years. All you’re doing is helping her further her grift by spreading drama over her obviously true survey that just had to be done. Had to be.

I really doubt this. What sort of troll keeps up on one topic for years (outside of like Cathy Brennan or whoever that was)? I don't see Aella as some sort of dramanaut. Maybe too autistic to live in a less-forgiving world, but I doubt you can really say there's malice behind what she does.

I see what you are saying. She doesn't seem like a troll to me, but I'm not very familiar with her, so I might be wrong. In any case the survey is shedding light on an understudied area, and while it might be obviously true that lower BMI makes escorts more money, it isn't obvious how much more.

Showing that being tallness offers benefits doesn't help short people improve their standing as increasing height is impossible. But offering evidence that skinny prostitutes are more succesful, describes a way to overweight sex workers how to get richer.

Any benefits that might come from posting are always secondary to the lulz, trolling, and shit-stirring.