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naraburns  nihil supernum  1yr ago (text post)   4004 thread views

Friday Fun Thread for November 25, 2022

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I'd disagree with suy as taking the answer you provide as insulting. Most people don't actually give a shit. Even more than that, they don't want to hear you talk - they want to talk to you about their hobbies.

That being said, discussing many of the things you do at a higher level is generally appreciated. For instance Instead of:

go on walks to unknown areas without a GPS in remote places far from home I have never been to

I would phrase it as:

I actually like exploring when I get a chance. I'll head out with some water, stop my car at the last recognizable place I can see, and just wander around. It's fun letting go of the phone and GPS for a bit, though it occasionally leads to interesting situations.

Just give yourself a timeclock of 3 sentences each time to see if the person wants to iterate. Give them openings to abandon the thread and push the conversation back on themselves. Don't mention how good you are at things - constant self-depreciation or discussing how good other people are at your hobbies is a way to deflect.

I have a similarly broad set of interests, so if I actually talked about what I do in detail at parties nobody would ever get a word in. Doesn't make sense.

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