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The evergreen quote:
The point is not to determine true culpability, it's to humiliate you today in order to change your behavior tomorrow. It's uncanny how your anecdote is perfectly explained by this change in perspective.
I love Thanksgiving, it's my favorite holiday. I'm thankful that we actually moved, and it actually worked, and we're not dead yet. I had low expectations, despite agreeing with the necessity of the move, so I'm very thankful it has exceeded those expectations and raised my hopes that this community might live a little longer yet.
This is not a novel idea, but the overall practice of nonstop atonement for ones privilege was part of the Maoist struggle session as refined version of Marxist-Leninist self-criticism. This has similar effect as various gang initiation rituals that often consist of participating in gang activities like killing or robbing someone. This is meant to make not only the target but also the mob participants in the ritual, which makes them more prone to consistency fallacy and sunken cost fallacy methods of manipulation, with added benefit that this manipulation is enforced by those closest to you in form of snitching. This creates a false feeling that the enforced ethos and values are shared by the mob and that you are the faulty one who needs to work harder. It is incredibly insidious shit.
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