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Culture War Roundup for the week of March 31, 2025

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I want to revisit my point 6. A boy is at least one order of magnitude more likely to be murdered by his mother than a girl by an incel (though both happen extraordinarily rarely). Should we make a TV show about it? Hold hearings in government about it? Order that all expectant mothers need to attend a mandatory class on how they need to purge themselves of misandry and not murder their sons?

The truth is that incels are not hated because they are very murderous. Their crimes are much more serious than that:

  • They are icky
  • They made the mistake of being born straight cis-male, which marks them as oppressors in the woke mindset
  • They might follow manosphere influencers with pretty antique views
  • They presumably might not compete for money and status to attract a mate, thereby calling the natural order of society into question
  • Presumably, they might not even treat every hot woman with the devotion which is her birthright

Women will put up with hot men who are not feminists, but if your sexual market value is small and you are also on the bottom of to woke oppressedness totem pole, then you are expected to be an Ally to your betters. See the Scott Aaronson saga for illustration.