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Culture War Roundup for the week of March 3, 2025

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Fruck is partially correct, but more so incorrect. I will be speaking on a personal level, because I come from MENA. Fruck is correct, in the sense that some of the lashing out stems from a sense of inferiority or ennui; however, Fruck attributes this to a fundamentally incorrect cause.

First of all, it is trivially true that Arab culture in general do not value hard work or being a provider. Is being a provider expected? Yes, especially in the upper classes. But in the lower classes, all manners of mediocrity, laziness, corruption and sloth are generally accepted; hard-work is not an arab virtue. It would be incorrect to say that these men feel insulted because they are being denied the opportunity to provide for themselves.

They are, however, insulted by their perceived inferiority. Arabs, and arab men especially, are driven by a need to have "face". They need to appear rich, and powerful. Women need to love them, men need to obey and respect them. It's also important to note that many arabs believe that they are culturally and genetically superior to everyone else. So, when an arab refugee ends up in Europe, the cognitive dissonance between how he perceives himself (strong, virile, powerful), and what he actually is, which is a ward of the state, produces these incoherent and violent actions. In fact, their presence in Europe might actually strengthen this tension. In the Middle East, arabs can at least be ignorant of their station, but once exposed to European standards, in an ironic twist, it might drive them to further extremes of supremacy.

Of course, I would be remiss not to mention the inferiority psycho-sexual complex arabs have towards whites. Can be seen in these reddit threads: here, here, and here. For reference, /r/muslimcorner is a place where young muslims talk and discuss islam. Notice the weird comparisons towards white people? Notice the subtexual resentment?

Of course, I would be remiss not to mention the inferiority psycho-sexual complex arabs have towards whites. Can be seen in these reddit threads: here, here, and here.

It's very funny that the first one is from a Pakistani because I've heard them and other non-Arab Muslims be accused of the exact same thing except toward Arabs.

It’s a skin tone / racial hierarchy thing until it gets to the Gulf Arabs (who are pretty tan), then it becomes about purported piousness and khaleeji superiority, birthplace of Islam etc.

I agree with this, and it matches my experience with Arab immigrants - especially the younger refugees - very well, having lived in Paris and now in Vienna. Especially in France, there was a constant sense of indignation among them and the word "disrespect" was used liberally whenever any entitlement didn't materialise. (By far the most outrageous recurrent example of this was them rudely approaching girls to hit on, and when told there was no interest, claiming they were disrespectful - a hilarious inversion of what was going on).

This begs the question - why would they even come here if they are so supremely sensitive and accept nothing but total slavish obsequiousness from the side of the state and population? I have trouble forming a theory of mind for these people, there seems to be a total lack of reflection around the most basic elements of social organisation : why would someone who doesn't work and lives off of foreign countries' welfare systems be respected? How can one perceive oneself as "strong, virile, powerful" after leaving behind one's homeland and sheepishly fabricating stories of persecution (i.e., being a weak victim) in order to gain asylum? Is it all just downstream from an extreme mix of chauvinism and anti-intellectualism?

Is it all just downstream from an extreme mix of chauvinism and anti-intellectualism?

Right on the money. I'd also add an immense amount of entitlement, but whether that comes before or after the chauvinism is a chicken and egg scenario.

Arabs aren't liberals; they're best modeled after WW1 era nationalists. Completely convinced of the superiority of their country and culture.