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The "non self-lubricating" part made me wonder if Naomi King was a post-op transwoman.
I think this is just normal variability. There are different vices and everyone has its own weak spot. There's no queue of businessmen willing to offer me multi-million bribes if I bend the law in their favor. There's also no queue of attractive women half my age willing to debase themselves for my amusement. But if there were, I am reasonably sure I wouldn't succumb to the first sin, simply because I feel that wielding lawful power righteously (fuck, I sound like a YA novel blurb) is a much greater reward, but I am not quite sure about a stunning female college student not being very particular about the origin and destination of various organic substances as long as it's me ordering her around. Thankfully, the only women hitting on me are at least my age and they are both less attractive than my wife and not obviously sexually adventurous, so my marriage vows are safe.
All these (mildly) famous people ending up in compromising situations are some or all of the following:
I am sure there are people who are sufficiently monogamous that if they came home one day and their wife said, "there's a hot naked 18yo girl in the bedroom waiting for you, here's her notarized consent form. If you don't like this one, I'll get you another. If you think this is a trap, here's a notarized postnup agreement signed by me," they would sincerely tell her that while they enjoy the attention, she is the only woman they need in their life. But we don't get to hear spicy news about them. Well, maybe when they get arrested with literal suitcases of cash.
Sidenote: no longer sufficient in many cases.
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