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Culture War Roundup for the week of February 10, 2025

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I'm not a Christian, but my first thought was: Did either of these men have children? I tried to look it up, Wikipedia says Bonhoeffer did not. It doesn't mention any children for Niemoller either--do you know?

My mom is a fan of this Vietnam-era song:

The marchin' band came down along Main Street
The soldier blues fell in behind
I looked across and there I saw Billy
Waiting to go and join the line
And with her head upon his shoulder
His young and lovely fiancee
From where I stood I saw she was cryin'
And through her tears I heard her say

"Billy, don't be a hero, don't be a fool with your life
Billy, don't be a hero, come back and make me your wife"
And as he started to go she said, "Billy, keep your head low
Billy, don't be a hero, come back to me"

The soldier blues were trapped on a hillside
The battle raging all around
The sergeant cried, We've got to hang on, boys!
We've got to hold this piece of ground
I need a volunteer to ride up
And bring us back some extra men
And Billy's hand was up in a moment
Forgettin' all the words she said

I heard his fiancee got a letter
That told how Billy died that day
The letter said that he was a hero
She should be proud he died that way
I heard she threw that letter away.

I'm reminded too of that E.M. Forster quote: "If I had to choose between betraying my country and betraying my friend, I hope I should have the guts to betray my country."

IOW there are more potential loyalties someone could have than just to their principles, religion, country...or self. (That Forster quote could be used to support either "side"--"Betray your country, whose government has been taken over by evil people, for the sake of your friend, who is a good person targeted by those evil people"; or, "Betray your principles, in this case the desire to save your country from its evil government, for the sake of your friend (and family and self).")

I agree it that it is much easier to be a Martyr if you aren't the head of a household. So it is reasonable to expect more heroism for God and country from single men than young married men, for example. On the other hand, I also think that does not excuse the behavior of German so-called Christians at large under Nazi rule, by more than a smidgeon.