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Culture War Roundup for the week of January 13, 2025

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The choice has largely been engineered out of my environment.

I'm not so sure this is true.

I don't use Instagram, I don't use X, I don't use Snapchat, I quit Facebook a few years ago, I have never installed TikTok. Facebook is the one I miss the most, as it's an easy way to access information on small businesses, and Messenger is an easy way to keep in touch with people you know in real life. WhatsApp is similarly useful outside of the US. But I have no regrets over my abstinence from the other platforms.

I do use YouTube, but not because anyone has engineered me to use it -- I just get net value out of it, and rarely watch shorts.

So I don't see why you'd say that these addictive apps are required. Sure, you won't be able to participate in "the so called town squares of the digital age." But in almost all cases, the actual net value of participating in the so-called town squares is negative. I can confidently predict that you will accomplish nothing of true value on X unless you're profoundly lucky, and even then the harm will exceed the benefit. Your voice will be drowned out by a billion other voices, all nonsensical, and your greatest triumphs will be forgotten in an instant.

There are absolutely choices that have been realistically taken away by the environment, like not having a smartphone or not reading messages on the go. There may also be careers where some level of networking online is necessary. But none of that requires anyone to use Instagram or TikTok or X, unless you are a social media manager. And the job of a social media manager is emphatically not to watch shorts, any more than the job of a bartender is to drink alcohol.