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What would be your "well what if X made it ok" in that scenario then?
That's why I asked the question: what would make a bunch of people who were super into "Me Too" and abolishing any potential for sketchy behavior in school and the workplace suddenly get so evasive about this?
If It's never ok for a 25 year old professor to talk to a 22 year old student without the office door open for fear of grooming, why the reluctance to call out weird sex stuff with leftist teachers and kids? Because to an observer the explanation looks an awful lot like "we don't want to prevent that, and oppose any attempt by concerned parents to prevent it until it's fully normalized."
Quibbling over the terminology and trying to prevent any word being used to describe the behavior is just Freddie's "please just tell me what word I am allowed to use" post in action yet again.
Well the premise is false, so who cares? A->B is always true, and usually not very interesting, if ~A. If we're willing to lynch witches on obviously false accusations, why not lynch my neighbor for calling me an asshole, which he at least did do something wrong? If those communist democrats love their violent black soros-funded mobs so much, why can't we firebomb a few abortion clinics? If my grandma's a monkey, then i'm a mixed-species freak of nature, and I can make billions by selling my tissue to biolabs. These are stupid statements! You know the former is a dumb left-wing thing, and is being done for stupid, hypocritical reasons, so - why bring it up - and what does it prove about the latter? They could entirely hypothetically correctly understand the latter doesn't matter, and that the former doesn't matter, and just be delusional about the former - and be in the wrong only in the former case.
Again, why are you being so obtuse and evasive about this? Either you think it's good or you don't, so why can't you just say it instead of spewing defensive ink everywhere?
The refusal to give a yes or no answer tells me the answer is "we'd rather not take a position agaisnt that just in case the party decides it's time to celebrate it"
I've said multiple times today that nobody should ever be trans, it's a crime against nature, confused, degeneracy, et cetera.
You're just doing a moral purity spiral, and have no interest in engaging in the details of why trans exist, what's happening with the people who are trans, etc. And certainly nothing about, like, conversational norms or meta-debate, which is what OP was mostly about.
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