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Small-Scale Question Sunday for December 29, 2024

Do you have a dumb question that you're kind of embarrassed to ask in the main thread? Is there something you're just not sure about?

This is your opportunity to ask questions. No question too simple or too silly.

Culture war topics are accepted, and proposals for a better intro post are appreciated.

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Can answer as a 2nd gen for good measure

  1. I couldn't, maybe very broadly North or South but tons of room for error
  2. Fairly confident with the more common last names (Patels are Gujurati, Singhs are from the Punjab region or around there) otherwise I couldn't
  3. Among 2nd gens I know, nonexistent. Among 1st gens (according to my father and some family friends who work in tech), Hindi speakers are sometimes a bit cliquey, though this really does seem to boil down to language more than any North/South enmity
  4. Basically couldn't
  5. My mom's family is Tamil so I know Iyer/Iyengars are Brahmin but that's about it (neither of my parents are Brahmin)
  6. Among 2nd gens, nonexistent. My father works in tech and is very dark skinned and has also never faced any caste-based discrimination in America. Mother is very lightskinned and other immigrants have never mentioned each other's caste to her either.
  7. I only speak English so N/A
  8. Among 2nd gens not at all, 1st gens yes some linguistic lines
  9. Among 2nd gens (and 1st according to my father), not at all