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Wellness Wednesday for December 18, 2024

The Wednesday Wellness threads are meant to encourage users to ask for and provide advice and motivation to improve their lives. It isn't intended as a 'containment thread' and any content which could go here could instead be posted in its own thread. You could post:

  • Requests for advice and / or encouragement. On basically any topic and for any scale of problem.

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  • Advice. This can be in response to a request for advice or just something that you think could be generally useful for many people here.

  • Encouragement. Probably best directed at specific users, but if you feel like just encouraging people in general I don't think anyone is going to object. I don't think I really need to say this, but just to be clear; encouragement should have a generally positive tone and not shame people (if people feel that shame might be an effective tool for motivating people, please discuss this so we can form a group consensus on how to use it rather than just trying it).

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Do any men here have any experience with this?

Uh... enjoy your slim, tight-bodied girlfriend? One of the hottest girls I've ever banged was maybe an inch or two taller and zero to ten pounds heavier than your girlfriend at the time, still had decent ass and pert tits, just no excess blubber around the arms/legs/midsection.

She denies having an eating disorder and I don't think she does, but she is very finicky about her food and hardly ever eats meat (sushi being her one exception, she loves that).

There's a lot of options there. Within the general sushi realm, there's a decent amount of variety with regard to maki vs. nigiri vs. sashimi. When it comes to cooked seafood, one can also do seafood fried rices, grilled seafood, baked fishes, pan-cooked shrimps/prawns.

I think she'd look and feel a lot better

You'd know better than me to the extent she'd look better, but be careful what you wish for... even by #BoomerHumor standards, it's already a cliche for a man to see his girlfriend/wife go from a thin qt3.14 to a heffersaur in a seeming blink-of-an-eye.

So many men would kill for a 5’5” 100-105 lb girlfriend/wife.

And I don't know to what extent she'd feel better. Usually women carry more than enough fat content such that changes in fat composition don't make a difference in general mood, other than the psychological impacts of being able to eat what you want. In contrast are some men, at certain times, in bodybuilding and combat sports who are more or less on the precipice of dying due to low body fat and dehydration.

but when I raised the subject once she just said "You don't want me to get fat, right?" and insisted everything was fine.

Based girlfriend.