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Culture War Roundup for the week of December 9, 2024

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I can understand people having a brief dalliance with extreme behavior and learning a sharp lesson. But...when you get to the point where you're competing with Aella in how terms of how many people came in the fluffer you must have had multiple hints that you aren't built like that?

And if you want to do the crying wojak thing instead of pulling back I have little sympathy.

Do religious people actually genuinely believe that those who willingly perform such stunts are capable of having all their sins washed away?

My reading of my society's trad Muslim faith* is that we formally leave room for the notion that this person is redeemable. Allah only knows who's in heaven and all.

But the sort of credulity shown by online simps who immediately welcome any convert who even touches Christianity would not be acceptable. No one sane would assume that they could just reach her with one verse, nor trust her if she just said she converted. She would simply have to suffer a bit of a social death. Being visibly observant (easier to tell than with other faiths) while suffering social opprobrium seems like a minimal requirement to signal true commitment.

* I guess we can say "conservative". I don't want to imagine the really trad sharia punishment.

Edited for meme accuracy.

Islam has quite a bit of influence from Christianity so I don't expect it to be a very different answer. I'm just disgusted by her act, how can a family support this stuff.

There are at least a couple of Hadiths where a prostitute is forgiven iirc.