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Culture War Roundup for the week of October 14, 2024

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The funniest thing in the world, whenever stuff like this hits, is to parse and put in plain language the assumptions that this ad makes, and by extension, the assumptions that this ad is asking you to make on its behalf.

-Assumption A: Of course black men can work in finance and make six figures.

-Assumption B: Ladies will consider you a mate if you work in finance and make six figures.

-Assumption C: Ladies will consider you a mate if you are tall.

-Assumption D: Ladies will consider you a mate if you work out.

-Assumption E: The disqualifier for a potential mate is that they don't (have a plan to) vote.

-Assumption F: The disqualifier for a potential mate is that they don't share the women's politics.

If you swallow all of this as one whole, poisonous package, the message that the Kamala campaign is sending is thus: broke, short, unhealthy and politically apathetic or unaligned males will not have sex with willing partners.

What are we to take away from this - that Kamala's campaign has a strong interest in eugenics? Or that they're re-enacting, as someone pointed out, the World War 1 white feather campaign? Do they expect black men to respond to this messaging? If this is how they're targeting black men, who is advising them? And if the world is crawling with "incels" like many of their politically aligned ilk believe it to be, what message do they expect these broke, short, and unhealthy politically unaligned men (let's be fair and include broke, short, and unhealthy politically unaligned women and they/thems) to take away from this if they want sex?

There is a further, meta-level set of assumptions that go along with this, if the ad is in fact targeting women. What is a woman going to take away from this ad, if she is already in a relationship with someone who is broke, short, or unhealthy, and doesn't share her politics? Are they counting on women who aren't already in relationships to add an additional qualifier just in case the Republican Evil is hereditary?