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Similar to becoming "queer" (in genZ):
https://www.dazeddigital.com/life-culture/article/57149/1/its-official-gen-z-is-really-really-gay
Since being straight white cis is like being the devil in the current media environment, and bonus points are given if you aren't one, why not just identify as queer? Similarly, people don't want to be just white, that's dusty boring dinosaur boomer stuff.
And Warren wanted to be a cool fellowkid who totally keeps up with the young ones.
We are talking about identity, right, not about sexual attraction? Because that quote is actually not about identity (although it is stupidly written to imply that it says something that the author explicitly says is doesn't). This is the complete quote:
And the immediately preceding paragraph says:
So, pct identifying as straight is 71 pct; it is the pct who say that they have zero sexual attraction to people of the same sex that is 53%. (In other words, many people identify as straight despite having at least a tiny bit of attraction to those of the same sex, which implies that identifying as straight is not so verboten after all; if it were, those people would identify as bi).
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