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It's not that the hair is not a point of inconsistency it's that the hair is not part of the broader problem i brought up here. if this was a discussion of rings of power, i probably would've brought it up.
Dragons are part of the premise. The premise of the show is that this is a world in which dragons exist. It's something that I know I'm supposed to suspend disbelief for in every case because dragons don't exist and everyone knows that. but it's not like there are dragons and no one acknowledges it. i mean the true counterpart to them treating the dragons like they do race was if dragons were just flying overhead and no one in the movie acknowledged it. The whole plot revolves around that. I know that I am supposed to say 'alright dragons are not real, they have them here, so this is obviously a world where dragons exist' but it isn't clear that race never matters, which is evidenced by the clip i posted where the character in house of dragons clearly stated that his character knew they weren't her kids because they were white (in a youtube commentary). It's a basic reality of human existence that kids look like their parents. I mean if one of the characters married a lizard they would explain why that occurred; they wouldn't just be like 'if you think it needs to be explained why a woman would marry a lizard, YOU are the problem'
Yeah I don't know man given the previous comment I'm not sure how you can frame yourself as a neutral observer that sees issue on both sides, as you clearly agree with the logic of one side.
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