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I can imagine your enjoyment of a cultural even is predicated on the participant's skin hue being as closely matched as possible to your own. I mean, everybody has their kinks. I don't have to understand yours. I just think it's very weird for this particular kink to become a culture-wide rule.
That sucks for me, because now I have to stop watching everything from Agatha Cristies' detectives to American romcoms to Hong-Kong martial arts movies to Korean historic epics - nothing matches my cultural background as an Eastern European Jew. I could probably still enjoy Sholom Aleichem maybe... but he talks too much about living in the shtetl, and I grew up in an urban culture in 20th century, so no luck for me again. But wait, there's a respite - their skin tones still roughly match mine (even the Hong-Kong guys maybe close enough? please?), and that means that it's all the same culture, since there's only one culture per skin tone, so yay, I am saved.
I think you are voluntarily robbing yourself of a wealth of cultural experiences. I'd suggest to try to expand your horizons and you may discover people that are different from you may be also interesting. You don't have to, of course - it's just a choice that is available to you.
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