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The neighbors audio recording described at the very end supports the guy's (AD's) story, too. He's said to be talking softly, not telling, and not using profanity. That officer takes a bit of a swipe at the detectives who were supposed to find video, heh.
I think it's amusing that some of the kids say they weren't going there to TP but only to look at how bad the house had been "got", and another kid is like, "Man, it happened so fast we hadn't even opened our toilet paper yet!"
@Gdanning Please do not injure yourself when you facepalm; I'm sure this brings back memories of the thousand-yard stare variety.
I'm afraid I am going to have to ask you to clarify what you are referring to.
Ah, nothing specific; I figured that you've had any number of experiences of the "please exercise your right to remain silent, why did you have to talk..." variety.
True. But nothing compares to the many, many jailhouse phone call transcripts in which the suspect's discussion with his girlfriend re how, when, where and why he committed the crime is interspersed, every 30 seconds, with automated announcement warning that the conversation is being recorded and can be used in court.
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