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Culture War Roundup for the week of July 8, 2024

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I thought the usual argument there was that Trump has always wanted to be recognised and respected by New York high society, and he never has been. He's tried to use money and fame to buy his way in, but he's too fundamentally lacking in class or tact. I could imagine that, internally, what it feels like to be Trump is to be always excluded from the inner ring. He wants to get inside that ring, but no matter of power, not even being president, is enough to generate acceptance or respect.

Trump was not only rich, but he lived a cartoon version of a rich man's life because of his deep entanglements with media and entertainment.

The cartoon bit is important, I think. Trump is very rich and powerful, but Trump is also a clown in a way that real high society elites aren't. Trump's status has always depended on his ability to perform, the ability to get a crowd to hoist him on to their shoulders in a rush of popular enthusiasm. That's not how it is for the real upper class. The real upper class may be popular, but they don't need popularity, and in fact ought to mildly disdain it.

He's tried to use money and fame to buy his way in, but he's too fundamentally lacking in class or tact.

Money, fame and golfing ability. Elite golf is part of WASP high society (Steve Sailer has written a lot about this), and Trump embraced it and it embraced Trump (rejecting him only after January 6th). I don't think you are excluded from the inner ring if a club like Winged Foot not only grants you membership, but also tolerates blatant cheating.

I can absolutely imagine that Trump needed the single-digit handicap (which he earned legitimately when he was younger) to get into clubs that old money is allowed to shoot 90s at, but if the bluebloods see you as actively undesirable (at the time Trump was learning to golf, "undesirable" mostly meant "Jewish"), you need to be winning majors to get in with pure golfing ability.

Trump is also a clown in a way that real high society elites aren't.

This is a choice. Not many real high society elites make that choice, but the ones who do don't get kicked out of the club.

The real upper class may be popular, but they don't need popularity, and in fact ought to mildly disdain it.

Trump doesn't need popularity for business reasons, he craves it for personal reasons. Fred Trump never courted popularity, and nor do most commercial real estate guys. Trumps third and fourth careers (reality TV star and politician) were choices made by a man who was already rich enough to do what he wanted.

Of course, the ultimate test of whether old money accepts you is who your kids marry, and the results for Trump are interestingly ambiguous.

  • Don Jr married a girl who was "brought up in an Upper East Side townhouse" and went to a posh Manhattan private school. But the white-shoe lawyer who paid for the townhouse was her stepfather, not her father, and both the girl and her mother had worked as models.
  • Ivanka married the scion of one of the richest Jewish families in NYC, but the family was in disgrace when they met after Charles Kushner was jailed for tax evasion and associated process crimes.
  • Eric married a woman from what appears to be a normal middle to upper-middle class background.
  • Tiffany married a billionaire's son, but he's Arab.
  • Barron is single.