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In Ancient Greece I am sure I could find at least one 12 year old boy who said he didn't feel worse off for being bummed by his mentor. Such a testinomy, given that it confirms that prejudices of its society, would be inherently problematic. Soeaking badly of some common practise, particurly a sexual one, is in all societies stigmatized and one is less likely to do is, even if one feels it to be wrong.
Every human rights is inalienable, causing minute harm in a some small fraction of those who exercise it, is no excuse to derogate. I am sure plenty of doctors or coroners have seen the consequences of people using the second amendment against themselves, people injured or killed by traveling by means faster than foot, people and gay men in particular suffering due to their promiscuity.
Edit: You may argue that you didn't argue making it illegal to posses intact male genitalia. However you made the comparison of vaccines v circumcision, and in many countries vaccines are mandatory.
The question about any surgery is whether the benefits outweigh the costs. If the worst thing about circumcision is that it violates some inalienable right to a foreskin then the argument against it falls flat. By that measure, tonsilectomies are also inhumane in that they aren't strictly medically necessary in most cases. My problem isn't so much with people who choose to forego the procedure but those who act like it's causing some great harm and should be prohibited in all but the most dire cases.
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