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I'm not a film guy, but is Coppola a ladies-famous director? Apocalypse Now, Patton, American Graffiti, a biography of Yukio Mishima...
If she'd find that list appealing, why the hell is she still your girlfriend instead of your wife?
She likes Oscar-bait that’s actually good, that’s the only way I can describe it. She really likes dark movies with moral complexity. She liked The Godfather. Her favorite directors are Martin Scorsese and Quentin Tarantino. She loved Taxi Driver, Wolf of Wall Street, and Shutter Island. We watched American Graffiti and we both thought it was interesting although obviously not a plot-filled movie. She loved Goodfellas and insisted on seeing Once Upon A Time In Hollywood in theaters.
She also likes chick films, Titanic was her favorite movie. And she definitely reads chick-lit, albeit literary chick-lit. Though she does complain that publishers aren't printing anything for men and that's weird.
But I don’t know, she just has a thing for dark films from directors who are very passionate about their work. She watches cast interviews for the films she likes and thinks about the directoral choices.
Inception got the closest to science fiction that she'd go, she has never liked spaceships or aliens or wizards or anything like that. Just not really her thing. She likes realistic fiction. And Inception, apparently. She's expressed admiration for Coppola before, so that's why I think it might be a draw.
She will be.
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