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Culture War Roundup for the week of June 17, 2024

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"Why do so many guys have fishing/hunting stuff in their Tinder profile pics" is a perennial complaint/debate in Finnish social medias, but I haven't seen it explicitly connected to politics, just "no woman is going to be impressed by this stuff, why don't guys put a bit of an effort in their profile pics instead of just using whatever is at hand?" and like. (After all, many guys don't take pics of themselves on the reg - pics taken to demonstrate a nice catch or something may indeed be the most recent ones of them available!) The common retort is that it's good if the profile pic shifts out the woman who can't appreciate a man's hobby.

And then, of course, there are the cowgirl tomboys who shoot better than the boys. I’ve unironically met rural women who 100% are looking for a guy to do outdoors recreation with them. Red tribe women like their red tribe men.

Maybe things are more gender-stratified in Finland, I don’t know.

Nah, there are women who hunt and fish, but one might guess that since it's still a male-coded hobby, women who participate will have an easier time finding a guy without needing Tinder than the ones who don't.

You could use it as a sorting mechanism, but I doubt that is what most men are going for. The other pics I see commonly complained about on both sides in the driving selfie and the mirror selfie, or the top down selfie if the subject is fat.