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Culture War Roundup for the week of June 10, 2024

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The unstated assumption that women on average do know men’s bodies and how to please them, but not the other way around (questionable at best)

And/or the unstated assumption that women are passive and hypoagentic and men are active, hyperagentic, and have the burden of performance. Thus, a man is responsible for her getting off and himself getting off (not too early and not too late, though, or she might get the ick).

The assumption that single older men would never in a million years visit museums, travel, read, hang out with their bros and have hobbies in general (I mean…really??)

Could just be projection and a preemptive strike out of insecurities over their own hobbies (current or when they were younger), or lackthereof. Women have tons of interesting hobbies, and if they don’t it’s only because they spend all their time getting mansplained to and taking care of all the stupid men in their lives.

Could also be that, once again, men have the burden of performance, that they’re expected to be interesting and that includes having interesting hobbies. Although, at the same time, within a relationship, male hobbies are a selfish waste of time, because that’s time he’s not spending on entertaining her, taking her on cUtE trips/dates, making her feel like the beautiful queen she is, or grinding harder to improve her lifestyle.

insecurities over their own hobbies (current or when they were younger)

Who drew that comic, it's hilarious