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I don't- I probably could've been more clear, but when I said that my friends & family would be higher up on nightmare-scenario government list of people to target, it'd be for different reasons.
In the hypothetical scenario where Trump & co start going after their perceived domestic enemies, I figure that trans people & outright socialists would be the next logical group to get hit after immigrants, and since I move in a lot of circles where both are highly over-represented, that concerns me by proxy. Several of my friends are already considering moving states, since the deep-red legislatures they live under have already made it exceedingly clear that trans people aren't welcome.
Oh… I know you’re not going to believe me, but I feel I have to say this for your mental health.
They will be fine. You have literally no reason to worry that Trump is going to deport them to El Salvadorian prisons. You have no reason to worry about anything other than that they may not be able to use their preferred bathroom or may not be able to receive hormones through Medicare anymore. Whilst I imagine those things matter to them, they’re not a big deal in the grand scheme of things and mirror the kind of frustrations that near all other people in the USA have to deal with from time to time.
Well, I hope you're right about that.
But while not every slippery slope has to be slid down, the sliding we've seen in the first three months alone doesn't exactly fill me with confidence.
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